My First Challenge
Over the last couple of months I've been reading various blogs and articles on line with regards to what to take on a trip to India - it's very clear that women must not expose any flesh from the knees and elbows down or have their chest exposed!!
Have invested in a few Ail Baba leggings (would be seen dead in them here!!) and light weight tops. Would guess it will be cheap to buy anything else I need to wear when I'm there. The majority of my packing list seems to be lotions, poshions and items it stop the bed bugs!!
I am going to write a list of everything I take and at the end of my trip will see what has been the most useful and what has been a complete waste of space.
Well I have managed to get everything in the main back pack and it weights in at 15 KG - so will use the clip on pack as my hand luggage! Never thought I would get it all in!!
A massive thanks to the team in Boots - I have brought 4 x TSA padlocks and this morning while trying to set my own security code found they did not work!! The Boots team got it sorted for me and I now have 4 locks that work and hopefully will keep my luggage safe.
Keep having thought like - this is the last time I will blow dry my hair before before I get home and this is the lasnt time I will hoover!! Weird I know. Have a real mix of emotions ranging from being so excited to thinking maybe I should just not go...... Anyway got an hour before the taxi picks me up so will have a glass of wine relax and check I can upload to my blog!! ๐๐
Had a brilliant flight, did not sleep much but the time seemed to go quickly.
When I arrived at the airport I had to go to the 'e visa' area to get through immigration OMG there were so many people of all nationalities- it's took over 2 hours to get to the desk - very strict - photographed and they took finger prints - not a smile in sight!!
Once I got through I was in the main departure lounge and first though was I need to get some local currency - I saw a Thomas Cook stand and went there I was well and truly ripped off!! For £70 I got 5500 rupees which I now know is worth just over £40!!!!
As promised there was a guy waiting for me to arrange my transfer to the hotel - oh I am using the word hotel just to be polite!!!
The journey from the airport to the city was about an hour - it was a constant beeping of horns and near misses - people just walk in front of cars and it's comes across as a free for all. It's is boiling hot.
Arrived at my 'hotel' signed in and shown my room - well I have an ensuite with a proper loo and the shower is well - not what I'm used to, I've no idea what the bucket is for!! Went to open the blind and nothing I mean no window - I would guess it broke as some stage and they have put a bit of tin in place of the glass, so no I don't have a room with a view.
Have at least made a decent coffee (good old Nescafé).
Am now sat waiting for 5.30 (an hour to go) to meet up with my fellow travellers- so at the moment it's a bit bleak- I'm not going to go out on my own don't feel confident enough at the moment - the 'hotel' is down a side street so don't want to take a chance.
Got a couple of adapters at the air port - my room certainly is not compatible so not much chance of charging my phone here - they do have wifi though!!
Well have met and spent the evening with my fellow travellers - really nice bunch of people - good age mix - and no I'm not the oldest!!
It would appear most of the group are only going to be with me for the first 6 days - they then return to Delhi and I will meet up with a new batch of people in Agra.
Tour leader is very nice speaks great english and she has managed to sort out a power adapter for me at the 'hotel'
After our group meeting we decided to all go out for dinner and arranged to met at 7pm - well to be honest I'd been shut in my room for 4 hours and did not fancy going back up so went and sat in the bar and got talking to a group who had just come to the end of a trip and they were giving me all sorts of hints and tips.
We walked through the market to get to the restaurant- it was amazing - the noise was deafening, the amount of people about was unbelievable- it reminded me of how it is when the last song is played at a concert and you all head for the exit!! It was crazy - would have loved to have stopped to take some photos but was worried about being left behind but a few of us have said we will go back tomorrow.
Went into a hotel restaurant for dinner - ummm very good - I went against my better judgement and had a chicken curry with naan bread - delicious- that with a beer cost £7 !!
It's was a good laugh and great to get to know the rest of the group better. It's would appears I am not the only one with a 'fake window'. Have shower curtain envy one of the group has a pepper pig shower curtain - I have the rings for a curtain but thats it!!!
One thing is very evident - the place was full of men on a night out - no couples or groups of just women just groups of men.
Well am in my 'sheet liner' need to get some sleep - got an 8am start tomorrow we are going on an excursion around Old Delhi - going on the metro then on a rickshaw!! Could be an eventful day ๐๐
We started today with an 8 am meet in reception - a quick brief as to where we were going and how the metro system works. All I had to really remember was 3 stops get off then 4 stops !!
The walk to the metro stared off fine - and tickets were purchased - well in fact they are small coins that you tap in (like our Oyster card) between station and at the end of our journey you give your coin up. You have to go through security and photography is not allowed - apparently the translation for escalator in Indian is ' stairs moving using electricity' their sign for the metro is a take on our underground sign. On the metro there are separate sections for women - which is far less crowed and feels safer so we used this while the men in our group had to suffer the packed sections of the train. The difficulty is getting on and off quickly enough - in fact our guide nearly got left behind!!
Once we reached Chandni Chowk which is in the centre of Old Delhi - it's a very busy shopping area - a market full of everything you can imagine - it's a real play on your senses - sound and smell !! Some of the sights are unbelievable- an electrician would have a sound day here - there are electrical wires running all over the place - it's a real wonder people are not dropping dead before your eyes through electrical shock!!! We walked for a while then we all jumped into rickshaws to take us to one of Delhi's oldest mosques. Being on a rickshaw was an experience - our 'driver' was no more than 15 and there was nothing off him - yet he cycled us through those narrow streets and busy roads with no problems - hope I get chance to get another go on a rickshaw - I am amazed they don't get knocked off their bikes.
The Oldest mosque is Jama Masjid - very impressive building - photos are on my camera so can't share them at the moment - we had to take our shoes off to go in and they then 'gown' you up - you have to pay to take in your camera about £3 - the guide did not come in with us (she looked after our shoes) so not really sure what the whole place was about - apparently up to 25,000 people can go in at one time - there is a pool in the middle and people were washing - to be honest it did not look very clean, there was lots of bird poo about so was quite pleased to get out.
After this we walked through the manic town to a Sikh Temple - WOW it was amazing!! Really did not know what to expect - we were initially taken to a room where we met with a Sikh who let us know he would be showing us around and he would give us the history and let us know when we could take photos but of course we had to respect those that were there praying.
Before we went in he tied a scarf around my head, we then had to wash our hands and walk through a pool of water. Once we entered the building I was amazed at the beauty - we were told we could sit at the back and just listen and watch what was going on - it was really moving - he then took us outside and explained what was happening and the meaning behind it all - nothing heavy, it was so interesting. He then spoke about the community kitchens - they feed on average 21,000 people a day - every religion and race is welcome with no questions asked - they all seem to help one another. We saw the kitchens, huge woks and pots - some women were sitting making chapati's and I was invited to help - which of course I did - loved it.
We then went into a massive dinning area were they were laying out rugs or sit on and we were invite for breakfast - it's was OK, some chapati's (don't think it was the ones I made!!!) some sort of lentil curry and rice.
Well of course a free meal does not come without some sort of payback - washing up!! I've never seen such big sinks !! But yes sat on a bench washing dishes!! Oh and on the way out I was asked if I would like to help by peeling a few potatoes - of course I did it ( can't remember the last time I peeled a spud!! That's was M & S is for !!)
But on a serious note it was a fantastic experience and I hold my hands up I know very little about the Sikh religion but in the few hours I was there I feel I should know more and will make an effort to have a greater understanding.
The afternoon was free so a few of us went to the Red Fort - steeped in history and an amazing building - it was so hot and being honest I was exhausted so did not really get the most from it. Enjoyed sitting in the gardens with chipmunks running all over the place.
We then managed the metro back to our hotel with no real drama. A few of us need to get some cash - well I can truly announce that Delhi has run out of money - 3 of us went to 5 ATM,S and all of them have run out - everyone seemed to be trying to get money and there's nothing - on the way back to the hotel we were so hot and bothered we stopped and had a few beers - they went down well!!!
Once we got back we contacted our guide and she seems to think we will be able to get money tomorrow at our next stop Jaipur.
Must go dinner in half hour and I am starving.
Went to a great different restaurant this evening again excellent food - I had Muglai Kaddish Gosht - basically lamb curry with naan - excellent - we are all getting to know each other better now so there was a bit of sharing going on so good to try several different dishes.
Then the news - our train tomorrow leaves at 6am so we need to leave the hotel at 5am !! We then have a five hour journey to Jaipur. Most of us have voted to see a Bollywood film in the evening so looking forward to that.
Time to get my head down - bit of any early start tomorrow.
Time to leave Delhi and head to Jaipur - a five hour train journey.
We met in reception at 5am - I had real trouble getting everything back into my bag - I had to resort to sitting on it!!
Picked up by cabs and driven to the main train station - could not believe how busy it was - but so many people asleep on the streets - men were even balanced on their rickshaws sleeping!!
The station was not too busy - lots of security - we had allocated seats so it was quite civilised and we were at the start of the trains journey so did not have to try negotiating around bodies. Got a great seat - window with a table - well the actual journey was not what I expected - comfy seats and air con. When we pulled away a guy came along and gave everyone a big bottle of water, then came the news papers !! Then over the next hour we got a cartoon of mango juice, tea (don't drink tea but loaded it with sugar and it was sort of ok) then a breakfast tray - bread fine but then I lifted the lid on the tin foil dish and there were a few very thin chips (about 5) about 10 peas (not that I actually counted them) and a couple of chickpea type fingers - they were ok - I was watching what the locals were doing and they were spreading them on their bread - no thanks !! I did eat them but they were odd - oh and I left the chips and peas!! While all this was going on I was taking in the passing scenery - how these people live like this is beyond me - so many family's just living under a piece of plastic - whole areas were just like this. Men were just sitting by the side of the train tracks - just sitting on their hunches- staring - guess with nothing to do. The rubbish was piled high and kids with white sacks were walking on it picking bits up - not sure what but guess plastic or something that could be sold on.
The problem is so huge I really don't know where the government can start to try and resolve this - guess it starts with education but an overwhelming task.
We passed through some countryside where people were working in the fields - by hand and again just sitting - and of course our train goes through packed and none of the local occupants gave them a second glance.
when we arrived at Jaipur we were met by a beggars and we had been warned not to give them any attention or money - it really pulls at your heart strings - young girls with babies- but then a young girl came up to me begged and pointed to her tummy saying 'please baby' she could not have been more than 8 !!!! - and no I did not give them anything.
We were then told we would be getting tuk-tuks to the hotel - never have I every experienced anything like it - loved it was it was utter madness - there were three of us in my one - the traffic and they way they drive is well - crazy - the noice deafening but somehow I felt safe - they seem and have confidence in the fact that everyone is weaving in and out and no one is going to hit you.
Got to the hotel - very nice - nice grounds so you can sit out - room is OK - think I have the smallest room - everyone else has fridges, sofas, verandas but not me - oh I do sort of have a window - looking out on the corridor!!! But to be far the room is fine - after the last hotel anything would be better - it's clean, the showers works and the air con does not keep me awake.
After a bit of a rest and lunch we were told we were going to a place where they make hand printed textiles then to see gem stones made into jewellery. Both were really an opportunity for local business to sell to tourists - yes they were interesting, the process used to make the products but then its take a seat, have a cup of char - and let me show you what we would like to sell to you. Really liked some of the silk scarves but they were so pushy I did not buy anything except when we went to the jewellers I was looking at a sapphire ring - anyway this guy was showing me the gemstones and saying he could get it made into a ring - went through the whole thing and he wanted £350 I said no sorry and walked away - went down stairs and he appeared and showed me the same ring but the stone was a bit smaller (did not look any different to me!!) and offered it to me for around £100 - anyway it's being made for me and 'should be delivered' to the hotel tonight - fingers crossed ๐ค.
The evening saw most of us going to a Bollywood movie - such a laugh, the whole experience was so funny - it was shown in a theatre - the place was packed with kids, babies and grown-ups - they were cheering when the obvious star came on screen, clapping and generally getting so excited about the film - you could follow the so called story easily - so so corny but great fun.
Early start in morning - the ballon ride - so nervous about it!
Did not have a great nights sleep, may have had something to do with the fact that early tomorrow morning I am going to climb into a wicker basket attached to some cloth that is filled with hot air go hundreds of feet into the air whilst naked flames continue to fill this envelope of fabric with hot air to prevent said basket crashing to the ground with a high probability of me dying!!
Anyway the instructions were to met in reception at 4.45 where a car would pick us up and take us to the launch site. There were five of us in the end so I was not alone in this madness. The journey took about 45 minutes, everyone dozed of while I stared out of the window thinking 'what the hell am I doing?'.
When we arrived it was still dusk, we had a drink and snacks - well a biscuit! Paid our money and was told we were in ballon one - not sure if that's a good thing or not. It was a beautiful sight watching the ballon slowly fill with hot air. We were getting very close to the point of no return, my heart was racing and to be quite honest I was feeling quite sick - glad I was with someone who had done this many times before and was very reassuring it was going to be a great experience.
Time to climb into the basket- there were 3 of us in our section so had lots of space. Our pilot was superb, he gave us the landing briefing basically when he shouts landing position you have your back to the landing site, bend your knees, lean back and hold on to the loops on the side of the basket - oh and we may bump along a few times!!!
Ready for lift off, about 8 local lads were stopping the balloon from moving off the ground, on the pilots command they all let go and off we went. I was so surprised how gently we climbed. To start with we kept quite low to go over a small village. It was amazing everyone was coming out of their smallholdings, kids and adults waving.
It was delightful to get a different prospective of India- so far I have only seen hustle, bustle and noise. It's was so peaceful, the sounds of the village rose up. - dogs barking, kids laughing and talking. The area is a far cry from wha I have seen so far, no rubbish in sight, the small holdings were well tendered and people seemed happy.
Dawn was breaking, we rose higher and the sun was peeping over the ridge, what a sight - so beautiful- watched the sun come up feeling so privileged. The area was bathed in this amazing light and another day has begun.
We were up in the air for about an hour, then the command came 'landing positions' and we were down OK we bounced a few times but it was nothing. My first thought was 'again I want to do it again'. I am sure there is the opportunity to do a ride over the desert in Dubai so will try and get that organised.
Once we had landed, in a farmers corn field the village people came to greet us. It was brilliant- AND I got a certificate. Feeling so proud I faced the fear and did it.
Was buzzing all the way back to the hotel !!
Once we got back from the ballon ride had time to get some breakfast before meeting up to get out for the day in Jaipur.
We are now being transported in an air conditioned bus - luxury!!
We are off to Amber Fort. On the way we drive through the city - you see see why it's called the 'Pink City' the architecture is amazing. We stopped of at The Palace of the Winds to take some photos, it's a beautiful building which I seem to remember it has over 950 windows and basically it was built is ancient times for the royal women to watch parades and festivals.
We then drove out of the town to the amber Fort, an amazing fort with a spectacular palace in the middle. It covers a massive area with a Palace in the middle. We walked up a cobbled roadway. Some people were taking elephant rides up - so wrong - I could now get on my high horse about it but I won't!
Once we got to the top we entered the Palace - it was very pretty especially the Hall of Mirrors - I was very impressed with the whole thing, the views were amazing. It was a challenge coming down - no not the walk - it was the street sellers - they were very forceful and just did not give up.
We then went to lunch - was a bit odd, no alcohol on the menus but when asked what we wanted to drink the waiter offered both wine and beer so a beer it was - but what was funny when we got the bill beer was itemised as B.Water and wine was G.Water - we are guessing they did not have a license to sell alcohol.
We then went on a walk around Jaipur - it was interesting but to be honest I was exhausted and was pleased when after an hour we were given the option to go back to the hotel before deciding what we were going to do in the evening?
We all decided that we would eat in the hotel - don't think I have mentioned that the hotel is a no alcohol zone - why don't know ( no license ??) anyway to cut a long and very silly story short a couple of the guys brought some down the road and we were doing that old trick of buying soft drinks and topping up with 'special water' anyway we got caught - but they did compromise and we were banished to the roof terrace which was very pleasant.
Had a bit of a lay in today - we needed to be away from the hotel at 8.30 ready for the next leg of our adventure in India.
All loaded on the bus for the 5 hour journey, it went so quickly- lots to see and so many changes of scenery. Once we had left Jaipur we joined a main road bit like a dual carriageway very smooth - several toll roads this went on for about an hour or so then we turned off and started to go across country - some The the sights were unbelievable- a couple of guys on a moped carrying a goat and a cow in a tuk tuk!! The small towns we drove through were very run down - people were staring at the bus and waving. People especially men just seem to sleep or sit. One town we drove through we had to stop and when I looked out of the window there were four carts all with bananas to sell each with a different seller - I mean a banana is a banana who do you pick to buy your bananas from!! I wonder if they actually sell anything - all the stalls are the same - there must be so much waste.
We were on the road for 5 hours then turned up at some gates with security and our guide announced this is where you will be staying- when we went through the gates we could not believe it - the place is amazing - it is an old Palace which is now been converted into a hotel.
As we walked in we were treated with a red dot being put on our foreheads and given a drink ( flat coke!!) we sat in the amazing room while we were told that we would be having some lunch in a short while then meeting at 4pm for a walk in the town then a visit to a temple to witness the Friday evening prayers.
As every room is different it was a lucky dip - we all had to pick a key - I have a superb room - more like a suite. The grounds are amazing. We had lunch in the dining room - all very grand.
I then went off to explore a bit - found the swimming pool, no did not fancy that - the water did not look to clever so thought I would give that a miss, then as I was walking towards the small farm I saw this guy open up some old barns so went over to be nosey- there were 1930's cars stored there - fantastic condition - apparently they are taken out for a drive twice a year - got some good pictures of them.
Then sat in the court yard for a while before having a little snooze!!
Come 4pm we all met and left the security of the grounds - it was as if no white person had been here before- all the kids wave and want to know where you are from.
We stopped off at a little cafe for a drink - ok I am execrating a bit - ummm ok a lot - we were invited to sit on a bench at the side of the road ( a track) while a guy made our tea - it came in the tiniest little flower pot type cup ever - it was funny - the locals sat on the wall behind us - I would guess thinking we were nuts.
As we were walking all of a sudden we heard some loud music banging and crashing coming towards us and it was a short parade up to the temple for evening prayers -(where we were heading) - lucky for you I did a short video so you can sort of share the experience!!
The amount of rubbish is still amazes me - there just does not appear to be any pride. Dogs, pigs, cows and camels just seem to wonder wherever they like.
Any way we got the the Temple had to remove our shoes and went into the main area and people where sitting in groups just singing and chanting - it was all due to star at 5.30 and it did - big time - everyone stood up and were holding there hands in the air then laying on the floor and kissing the ground - it was fascinating - did not have a clue what was going on - there was some holly person on the stage who seemed to be leading the whole event and people were moving from one part of the room to the other then back again - well after about 15 minutes The seemed to throw some holy water over them and we left - think they all eat together and carry on the celebrations because we took tuk tuks back to 'The Palace' and could still hear them.
We had an hour before dinner and were told to meet in the court yard - it was amazing - we had dinner outside on a long table all laid out beautifully, the food was very good and we all had a great night - unfortunately I didn't get a photo but one of the guys is going to send me one.
We then spent a couple of hours drinking and chatting - I only have one more day and night with this group it's going to be sad to say good bye.
We leave this amazing place tomorrow at 7.15am to make our way to Agra and the Taj Mahal.
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We leave the fabulous 'Palace' to make our way to Agra. Lovely to be on the air conditioned bus. The journey was about 4 hours to be honest I kept falling asleep I feel so tired today, have been bitten by mosquitoes all over my feet and legs and they have blown up like golf balls - the antihistamine is helping!!
On the way to Agra we stopped off to go to Akbar Mausoleum. It's was so hot - it was awful when we got of the bus we were hounded by sellers - they just would not let up - it was constant until we got into the grounds . The building is beautiful and the grounds amazing - we had a good guide who was obviously very passionate about the place. Once we had walked around for about an hour it was time to face the gauntlet back to the bus - we had a plan - stick together as a group, look at know-one and speak to know-one and it worked - we were back on the bus in minutes with no hassle!! Result.
We then stopped off at a really nice place for a buffet lunch and it was delicious.
Then back on the bus to get to our hotel in Agra.
Hotel very nice - reminded me of a big city centre type hotel. Lovely room - massive window!!!! We literally had time to basically dump our bags then get back on the buss to go to the Taj Mahal - so excited -really hope it's everything I am hoping it's going to be.
Taj Mahal
Well the moment has arrived, I am finally going to get to see the Taj Mahal - it's a bit strange really I am so looking forward to seeing it but also feel a little sad - The plan was to see this place with someone special but life does not follow a plan so now I am following a new plan and I am going to see this magnificent magical building.
We arrived and was then transported into another small bus to the main entrance. Again lots of security - were not allowed to take in bags. We were also given shoe covers.
We joined a local guide and started to walk towards the area where the Taj Mahal stands - words just can describe just how beautiful it is - it makes me feel quite emotional just writing about it and thinking about that first sight - amazing. The place was packed but you don't feel like it - well unless you wanted to sit on the famous 'Dianna' seat for a photo!
We were there so we could see sunset - the guide who told us about the history and the best areas to be when the sun was going down.
We went off on our own, had a good walk around both the inside and outside of the building. When you went inside you had to put shoe covers on.
Then the sun started to go down - the light on the building was just amazing. I was walking about taking pictures and this old guy came over to me to show me the best places to stand - I got some amazing shots - well worth the 100 rupees I gave him.
It's the sort of place you could just all day and you would keep seeing different things.
I can't imagine anyone not being impressed with this iconic sites- even the most cynical of individuals could not fail to be impressed by the splendour of the Taj Mahal.
It most certainly did not disappoint.
Straight from the Taj Mahal we went on what would my last dinner with this group before I join a new group in the morning. We had a great evening, went to a restaurant and sat on the roof terrace to eat - my meal was delicious! Got to meet my new 'leader' - Ajay - seems a nice guy.
Then back to hotel for a few drinks - then the good byes - it would be good to keep in touch with them - a lovely group of people, I have throughly enjoyed my time with them.
So it's off to bed - tomorrow is a new chapter, new people to meet and an exciting time ahead.
When I woke up this morning was feeling quite apprehensive, a whole new group of people to join who had already established themselves as travelling companions - at least there were some others from my group that would be coming along as well.
Anyway after breakfast went down to reception area - we were introduced as our 'new travellers' - oh god this is going to be awful - anyway we loaded onto a bus - as I got on everyone was introducing themselves and generally being friendly - it's a group of 8 - all couples - oh and yes I think I am now the oldest - but you know what I don't care - heheheh I know they will help me with my bag!!!!
We had a short journey to Agra Fort - oh no not another Fort - but I was pleasantly surprised - it was amazing and we had a great guide who told us some great tales of days gone by and he did I not overload us with information. The Fort is well worth a visit if anything forget the Red Fort in Delhi and see this one. We were there for about and hour and half - on the way out we bumped into our old group โน๏ธโน๏ธโน๏ธโน๏ธthis is there last stop before they drive back to Delhi - so it was good byes and good luck again!!!
Back on the bus to get to the train station - 4 hours to get to Orchha where we stay in another Heritage property.
The bus journey was much the same as the others - the buses take a right battering- most of the roads are in a poor stage with pot holes and multiple speed bumps! Although the pace of life here is slow as soon as they got on the roads everyone is in a mild panic to get to wherever they are going. My intention while on my bus journeys was to write my blog - no chance, I did try but because of the bumps my typing was not up to much!!.
Finally arrived at Orchha - does not seem as hectic as Jaipur, as we arrive at our hotel we had to go down a very bumpy track then through security gates. The hotel looked amazing. We were treated with a garland of roses around our necks and the 'welcome' red dot on our foreheads. The building and gardens are fantastic and it has a great pool.
We had a few hours before we had to meet - we were being taken to a location where we could see an amazing sun set. Went and had something to eat then a quick wash up then time to go (again!!) we all loaded into tuk tuks and headed out. We climbed over some rocks by the river to get a good vantage point - it was well worth the effort - it was beautiful, the sun looked so big, and the chaos of the town was a distant noise.
We then went to a restaurant on a side street for dinner, it was good to have a beer and get to know some the group a bit better. By half eight we were all done in and returned to the hotel - again by tuk tuks - oh that night breeze was so lovely!!
Had the best night sleep - eventually- I have a beautiful room but it was occupied by these spiders that ran across the floor and jumped- I am afraid my flip flop did the deed and I had a little pile of dead bodies on the floor!!! ( I found out the next morning that a couple had a frog in their bathroom!!)
Woke this morning at and guess what the sun was blazing - just for a change!!
To be honest I have been eating 3 meals a day and I am starting to feel quite blotted so am not going to go for breakfast - instead I am going to sit by the pool with a nice strong cup of Nescafé!
The plan today is to meet at 8.30 to go into the town and visit a couple of temples - we went on tuk tuks - I do actually enjoy this mode of transport - it's good fun!!
Once we got into town we met up with our guide.
The palaces were lovely - unfortunately this was the place the British guy fell and died last Friday.
I was surprised on how deserted the palaces were - at times we felt we were the only people there. The steps to climb up to the different levels were very steep and the walk ways exceptionally narrow - with no regards to H & S, it was quite scary. Then there were the monkeys to contend with - they ran up to this Indian family who were carrying food - they just dropped it to the floor and the monkeys took it and came and sat on the stairs that I wanted to walk down - so I had to just wait - they were all quite vicious looking and we had been warned not to look at them and to keep away from them.
The heat is almost unbearable - apparently it is not normally this hot at this time of year.
Once we had been to the temples we were given the choice a) go and see another Temple b) have a walk around the town or c) go back to the hotel
C most definitely C for me - am absolutely shattered I don't feel I have stopped for 7 days so a few hours sat by the pool suits me down to the ground.
So I'll leave you there while I go for a dip and maybe a snooze ..........
Day nine of this amazing trip - we have another day of relaxing before we meet later to go to a cooking demonstration- we are going to be shown how the food is prepared then we get to taste the results for our evening meal.
It will then be back to the hotel, pick up our bags then a ride to the train station ready for our 9 hour overnight train journey. Don't really know what to expect, after my experiences in China I am sure it will be fine - I am prepared this time with my sleeping sheet. We will be travelling to Allahabad and the Ganges Boat Trip and overnight camping on the riverside - I will let you know how a I get on - me and camping in the same sentence is not a good start - no toilet or washing facilities is not my idea of a good time but I am looking forward to the experience. We spend the day on the boat so that should be awesome.
I think I have done well - day nine and the first time I have had to take Imodium, but feeling ok - will drink plenty of water today, have skipped breakfast and may skip lunch as well. So far I have chucked away the inflatable pillow (with a none slip pad) what a waste of time and space that was and a pair of my baggy trousers- don't know what happened but got back to the hotel the other night and they were covered in black oil patches (maybe from the tuk tuk)
Last night was fun, we had dinner in the hotel restaurant- my meal was not very nice (maybe that was the reason for the Imodium!!) some chicken dish but it was very boney. Got a chance to get to know some of the group better - the couple I was speaking to are lovely. Went to bed quite late 10.30!! Slept like a log.
There have been so many fantastic experiences so far on the trip but I guess the top three so far are 1. Taj Mahal 2. Hot Air Balloon experience and 3. The Sikh Temple in New Delhi.
I love going on the tuk tuks - it amazing me that there are not mass pile-ups. The weather is exceptionally hot. - it's 10 am and already it's 36 degrees. Am sat by the pool but think I will last for about another 10 mins before I move to the shade.
We are lucky enough to be in Varanasi when the festival Diwali is celebrated - so will get the opportunity to experience that. Apparently they let of fireworks in the streets - they don't have any regulations on buying or letting off fireworks so it will be interesting.
Diwali is a five day Festival of Lights - since I've been here I have seen decorations being put on many of the building and in the streets. The Ram Raja Temple in Orchha where we saw a prayer ceremony was decorated to such an extremely it looked like a fairground!! Houses are decorated with candles and colourful lights and people share gifts and recite prayers.
The festival is observed and celebrated by Hindus, Sikhs and Jains - its main theme is 'the triumph of light over darkness and good over evil'
Anyway that enough of my ramblings for now - think it may be a few days before I will be able to post any further updates - somehow I can't see there being wifi on the river trip or the camp site - mind you nothing would surprise me in this amazing country.
So it's Wednesday 11.30am and I am in a lovely little sail boat on the river Ganges. We were met by our crew with garlands of yellow marigolds and shown to our boats.
There were 4 of us in the boat, as it was not windy enough to sail they had to row one guy was sat at the front and the other at the back of the boat, the deck of the boat was covered in mattresses and cushions so we laid back to relax. It was lovely - so peaceful except the various religious ceremonies going on as we passed each very remote village. Every now and then we saw someone bathing and kids playing - they would shout out to us and try and swim over to the boat but soon gave up.
After an hour all three boats were attached to each other and the boat that was 'our kitchen' also came alongside- while we had been lazing on the deck they had been busy preparing our lunch. It was delicious- dish after dish was passed around - all vegetarian but ummm so good.
Then it was back to lazing on the river - taking in the sights and yes I had a snooze!! - it was absolute bliss.
We then arrived at our 'camp site' okay not the sort of camp site that springs to mind but an island of sand - during the rainy season this island disappears - there was nothing on this island - the river Ganges one side and oh the river Ganges the other!! While I am taking this in -'I could see a couple of guys in the distance putting up the toilet tent - we were told we just need to wait for them to dig the hole then we could use it!! Once it was ready for use I thought OK well I've got to go - and it was ok - those squats at boot camp paid off just fine. There was even a little shovel to put a bit of sand in the hole once you were 'done' !!!!
Tents, blankets and chairs were being off loaded from the boats - a couple of our group started to try and be helpful by putting up the tents - but the cricket game had started and as a ball was heading towards George he dived to try and catch it and just dived straight onto his tent - it was an absolute classic - tent collapsed as did the rest of us with laughter. We all sat around chatting, watching the sun go down and generally just chilling out.
The crew had got the site set up and now dinner was ready - again a fantastic meal. We could hear lots of chanting and bangers going off all in the preparation of Diwali which starts in the morning. After dinner we laid on the blankets and looked at the the stars, there was more chilling and chatting but come 8.30 we all decided it was time for bed.
So I depart for my tent - I paid a single persons supplement so had a two man tent to myself - so I am on the floor, there was some sort of mattress but not much - had my sleep sheet so got in that - still in the same clothes that I was in when I left Orchha! It was unbearable- so hot - it was so funny I was laying there and all I could hear was the couples saying 'I can't bare this' and 'I've got to get out of here' - I think about half the group ended up sleeping outside their tent - at least I had the space to myself - I had to keep it unzipped just to get some air in - it was so uncomfortable - I sprayed myself from top to toe with mosquito repellent - still got 3 bites (so not to bad) . The chanting and noice from the nearby shore went on for hours -'I kept nodding off but every time I woke up it was still going on. I really don't think I got more than a couple of hours sleep I was so please was it started to get light.
Thought, I would use the facilities- OMG - no way - I know your thinking maybe not too clean or the smell may not be good but no the tent was absolutely covered in these moths - they were small but awful - I did shake the tent to see if they would fly off but no - anyway abandoned that idea. The sun rise was lovely and for a short time there was complete peace in the air.
Then it was a quick breakfast and then the camp was dismantled and we are back on the boats by 7am for a further 3 hour cruise down the river - the floating kitchen was already preparing our lunch which we were told would be served at 10.30!!
During this time time us two girls on our boat needed a toilet stop - no there are no loos's along the way so they rowed the boat to a small sandbank so we could get off to 'go' - as we were trying to walk to the furthest side of the sand bank some locals were coming over - god that's all we needed at this time - luckily some one shouted at them from our boat - I would guess to go away!! Any way with a bit of careful use of a pashmina we both felt very much better!!
Come 10.30 all the boats were again tied together for our early lunch - again fantastic food. After our lunch it was a few minutes to the river bank where we had to disembark - I know in you minds your thinking a nice little wooden pier oh no - climbing up a steep bank - would never have done it if I had had to carry my main pack!!
Then we all loaded onto a bus for our 2 hour drive to Varanasi.
Showered, washed hair and clean clothes - blissful!
We are now in Varanasi - have until 4 pm when we meet again for a walk around town.
I need to go back a couple of days to let me know what I have been up to to explain why I am so pleased to be 'clean' again!!
On Tuesday evening we went to a local family where the lady of the house is a cookery teacher - absolutely delightful, we were introduced to her family and made to feel very welcome - we all sat in an area while she sat on the floor to show us how to make some delicious dishes - and they were delicious. She started off by making masala chai - now I am no tea drinker - never touch the stuff but this was so nice - I even brought some spices and the tea so I can attempt to make some when I get home.
She then made a dish with 'ladies fingers' can't remember the proper name for the. Then she made a aubergine and potato dish - OMG - the best I have ever had - it's was so good. Then a rice dish and some chapatti's. Once every thing was cooked we all sat in the dining room and tucked into the dishes - a great way to end our time in Orchha.
It was then Tuk tuks back to the hotel, pick up our bags and get cars to the train station. I have at this stage converted my luggage to 'ruck-sack' mode - after the ordeal of getting of the last train where I kept running over people's feet I thought I had better!! God it was heavy!! This is part of the trip I am really not looking forward to. Anyway we get to the station - I get loaded up with my bags and off we go - once on the platform AJay (our guide) gets us all together - first off all who wants to go and buy padlocks and chains for their luggage - as it has a tendency to go missing while you are a sleep - I had already heard this, so was already prepared with my retractable lock. Then it was a chat about women not going anywhere on their own on the train, don't swop seats and keep all your belongings close at hand. We had been given our bed numbers - we were told we would be basically in two groups so no one would be on their own - ok I thought that's fine - this is going to be fine - I'll be completely honest I was getting quite wound up about this whole event beforehand.
I needed to get water, so went along with 3 of the guys to get some. Then on the platform I could not believe my eyes - a bloody massive cow!! How it got on the platform I really don't know, it was going from bin to bin and the locals were not taking a blind bit of notice of it. While we were getting our water a train pulled in - it was packed solid - I mean solid - people were handing out of the doorways - oh the doors are never shut!! People there still trying to cram on - unbelievable!!
Anyway we got back to the other - the cow is still roaming around. Next to us was a crowd of about 15/20 guys - really friendly - it was so funny They started to have a press up'S competition - well one of the group Martin is a fitness instructor, ex army and built like a brick S***house - he joined in - it drew quite a crowd - lots of cheering and yes of course we won. All in good humour and good fun.
Then the time to go and catch the dreaded train - loaded my bags on my back again and went to the edge of the platform - all of a sudden out of nowhere that cow was right in front of me - I never moved so quick!!!!
Once the train arrived it was a struggle to get on then found our allocated beds. Anyway I found number 30 - I was on my own - top bunk, on the bottom bunk one side was 3 guys and then another 2 guys on the bottom bunk my side - my heart sank - I struggled with my bag to get it under the bottom bunk and then proceeded to get it locked up - I could all see them watching me, thank goodness there was no lighting I was so flustered- they must have wondered what I was doing - any way bag secured. I then just sat on the bottom bunk, not really knowing what to do. I could see there was a blankets and a pile of wrapped sheets, so took one of each and just put them my bunk. Then just sat back down again - this was so awful. Then AJay appeared - when he saw I was on my own he immediately said he would get one of the guys down here - In that old British way I really did not want to make a fuss but I was scared and by now feeling quite tearful. Martin appeared in a few minutes he did not care where he was and I moved to a different carriage - I was still in the top bunk but once I was up there it was fine. What was also so nice was Peter and Andrew found themselves in a different part of the train as well but Peter came back to make sure I was not on my own as he was going to swop if I was.
The journey was just over 9 hours - I did get some sleep but not much - at one stage I woke up and was freezing - luckily I had a jumper in my day pack!! I did not dare go to the loo so did not drink any water so was so pleased to get off the train, into our bus and then stop 5 minutes up the road where we had breakfast and much needed comfort break!!
So we are now in Allahabad - we are on the bus for a couple of hours - the journey is as usual through towns and villages, there is always something new new to see. One thing I noticed was they dry out cows dung - it's made into small shapes and stacked high - I found out they use this to burn on the fire and also put it on plants in the field as fertiliser. Not many villages have their own water so you always see people pumping waster into containers, people bathing and washing clothes.
As we are arriving at the river there was a large crowd of men, they were going to the river for a cremation- the body was on a wooden stretcher all beautifully decorated. I found out later that it is only the men that attend the cremation, the women stay at home - the period of mourning is 12 days!
Our boats were waiting - am really looking forward to this next stage of my trip.
Varanasi is said to be one of the holiest cities and for Hindu pilgrims the ultimate destination.
We arrived about half twelve to our hotel - it's OK - my first thought when I walked into my room was - Ok I've been 'tangoed' - it's was very orange. The noise from outside is so loud - although I am on the 3rd floor. It's very basic - BUT and this is a big BUT I could have a shower, wash my hair and change my clothes!! The water was cold but that was OK I really did not care.
Had a couple of hours before meeting to go on a walk around the town. We decided we would celebrate Diwali by getting some fireworks, drinking rum then going for dinner. AJay got this sorted for us, as a guide he is fantastic- he is happy to answer any questions you have about the country, about life in India and he has a wicked sense of humour- the best example of this was when we left Orchha was he stood there and announced to the group that he would give us the wifi code for the river boat trip and people were saying great I did not think we would get wife so everyone is waiting and he said 'n - o - w - i - f - i' it was so funny.
We had a walk down to the river Ganges- it was so packed especially because of the festival- we walked along and saw some many amazing sites, there were so many ghats and temples along the river. People were washing themselves in this holy place - all the while bangers where going off all the time - They kept making me jump, even though I knew they would be going off they still frightened me every time!! Kids would just let them off anywhere and everywhere. Cows where wondering about and wallowing in the river. There were different rituals being performed all over the place - words and pictures really don't do this experience justice - it's almost magical.
We then walked through the old city - it was a maze of narrow street again packed not only with people but cows, dogs and motorbikes- when I say narrow I mean a couple of feet it was manic - so much going on - every corner you turn there was another hive of activity and it was so hot, but everyone seemed so happy.
At the end of the tour some off us went to a silk shop - again another 'sales' place but it was interesting and the guy who obviously owned the store was amusing (oh and it was air conditioned and we got a free drink!!) was tempted to buy this lovely throw which would have looked great in the flat but put my sensible head on and chose not to (I know totally out of character!!!) anyway then it was a Tuk Tuk ride back to the hotel - that was an experience as it was so busy - to be honest it was not a safe place to be on the streets -'the bangers would just be lit in front of you, kids just throw them in the street.
Once we got back to the hotel it was drinks on the roof terrace and a few fire works followed by dinner in the hotel. Then back on the roof for the rest of our fireworks. The view from the roof was amazing, the noise was unbelievable- so many fireworks and continuous - it just did not let up not for one minute. We have a sunrise river boat trip in the morning - I really can't imagine we are going to see anything the air is thick with smoke.
I went off to bed around 10 - I felt I was in a war zone - the noise in my room was so loud it went on for hours but I did finally fall asleep and woke up at 5am ready for the trip on the river to see the sun rise.
Today is my last day in India before we make the journey to Nepal early tomorrow morning.
The alarm sounded at 5am - there is no kettle in my room so no coffee!! We set off at 5.30 and walk to the river - already there are so many people around - so much going on - there is a very elaborate prayer ceremony happening just above the river bank, this particular one happens both in the morning and then in the evening. There are people in the river and groups of people conducting their own ceremonies.
We all climb into a wooden boat ready for our early sunrise cruise - I really don't think we are going to get much of a sunrise today. Being on the boat was fascinating, we went quite close to the cremation site, somehow it seemed wrong to take a few photos but I did anyway- they cremate around 300 people a day at this one site - the piles of wood stacked up high were incredible. I must admit I find the whole belief in the power ow the Ganges quite fascinating.
We did get a bit of a sunrise - once the sun had made it way through the layer of smog over the city!!
Once we got back to the hotel some of us took the option to go to Sarnath for a few hours - another fascinating place - the site is apparently where Buddha preached his first message of the path of enlightenment. While we were there we decided to get an ice cream and sat on bench to enjoy the peace and quiet - along came an Indian family - it startled of with them asking for a photo with me for one of the girls and it was with two of them, then four and the next thing I know I am holding a baby (absolutely gorgeous) and photos are being taken with the whole family - with lots of giggling!! So funny!! We went there and back on a Tuk Tuk - 30 mins each way - that's got to be the max you do!!
Then back to the hotel - had about 4 hours before we are meeting in the evening to go on the sunset candle flower ceremony on the river which I am really looking forward to.
So what to do - wrote up my blog then got brave and went out on my own - ok it was a 3 minute walk to a great cafe that I had had breakfast at and that I knew had excellent wifi - joined a couple of women and had a great chat with them - they live in India - it was great chatting and listening to them - they were moaning about the prices in the cafe, which I found so funny - its as cheap as chips but I guess once you are living here you get used to how things are.
Had a great lunch and few drinks - and it cost no more than £5 - including a generous tip!!!!!
Back at the hotel - soon time to go out - I know we are going to have an early start in the morning but don't know how early yet - we have a long days travelling leaving India to cross the boarder to Nepal - will be about 10 hours!!
4am alarm - what is happening - I have spent another night in a war zone - continuous bangers, bike/car horns and dogs barking!!! And now the delightful alarm wakes me up at some ungodly hour to get up and pack ready for a ten hour trip in a bus - yay can't think of anything nicer - hang on yes I can - a nice chilled bottle of wine, some heavily salted and vinegar chips and a weeks worth of Corrie ( ok I will admit the last one is a bit sad but I love Corrie!!) but we are leaving India to travel to Nepal. I will be completely honest I do not really know what to expect with regards to Nepal, I had want to travel northern India and Nepal was just a convenient add on - it is not a place that was on my radar to visit so have no pre expectations.
We had been warned that the roads were not great - well that was putting it mildly the roads were horrendous- you could not sleep - as soon as you nodded off you were jotted awake again - new roads are being built everywhere but nothing is finished!! The first stop for breakfast was closed ( we have no idea why) so was told the next stop would be about 11.30!!!! I had not even had a coffee.
To be fair to AJay our tour leader he did stop off and brought a big bag of bananas for us then a stop for tea just to keep us going- it was not his fault the place was closed so he did his best.
We did eventually stop for some thing to eat - actually the food was disgusting and the coffee was non discript !!
Then back on the bus - honestly it was like being inside a cement mixer!! To be fair the time went quite quickly- there is always something to see.
As we were approaching the boarder the queue of lorries waiting was unbelievable!! Men were sitting under their lorries in groups playing cards, sleeping and chatting. - the boarder is only open to them at certain times.
You have to get your passport stamped when you leave India - should take a couple of minutes but we were kept waiting for an hour. We said goodbye to our driver and our bags were loaded onto rickshaws. Once we were clear to leave India you then walk for about 10 mins to get to the Nepalese boarder - so we were in a sort of no-mans land.
Once you walk under the 'welcome to Nepal' arch you have to go to a small immigration office, fill out a couple of forms - attach a photo and give them 25 USD - I did not have the right money but you don't get change!! Once you hand it in you are told to wait outside ....... we waited for what seemed an age then all of a sudden it was OK let's go. While we were waiting there was still lots of partying in the streets - people still celebrating Diwali.
We then climbed on board a new bus - but this one was so much better, more space, although I could not get my legs behind the seats - but guess the buses are not designed for westerners.
We had a couple of hours to get to our hotel for the night, we were meant to have a trip to the birth place of The Buddha but it was too late so that has been planed for first thing tomorrow morning.
The hotel was lovely, small cabins - oh how nice to be in the peace and quiet. Did have a visitor in my room - a gecko- it was in the bathroom- I was assured it would not harm me and would in fact eat any mosquitos - there were offers to get rid of it but in the end I locked it in and put a mat up against the door to stop in getting in my bedroom - it was gone in the morning so god knows how or where it went!!
Our evening meal was nice and it was good to have a beer again.
We have a 8am start tomorrow - and I will get to see some of Nepal.
A fantastic nights sleep, and breakfast was the best we have had so far.
The hotel is lovely and the people very friendly.
Then it was back on the bus for about half hour to the Maya Devi Temple which is meant to be the birth place of the Buddha. Very interesting place - grounds were lovely. We saw a procession of pilgrims with music and elephants.
Back on the bus for a five hour journey to our next stop Chitwan National Park. It's was great to see a slow change from India to Nepal. The people look very different and I was pleasantly surprised with regards to the lack of use of the car horn and a significant reduction in the rubbish on the streets. Many of the villages we drove through obviously lead a simple life - kids were playing in home made swings from the trees. There appears to be a lot more motor bikes - it seems if you are the driver you have to wear a helmet but if your a passenger you don't!!
We drove up through the mountains and made a lunch stop at an amazing little cafe/shack - we were told you will get real Nepalese food here - oh it was so good, spicy but you could taste the food. The place was great - set on the edge of the mountain with lovely views - could see a monkey sat in a tree.
Then back on the bus!! After another couple of hours we arrived at the Park. Our hotel looks great - small lodges around lovely grounds. We had an hour to freshen up before going on a bike ride around the village. My room is nice. Just to the side of my room is a field where I could see elephants- was very excited but later found out they are domesticated and used for rides - so not so happy.
We all meet up at 4pm to go out on our bikes, they were all lined up -helmets as well. Once we were all sorted we were off - at first the road was fine then it was very bumpy!! But I stayed on - no accidents!! We went to this little village, they still all live in a very basic fashion - farming, cooking on open fires - we went into one of the homes (had to really duck to get through the door) they totally rely on farming. It was incredible that people still live like this - one lad had a football and was delighted to have a bit of a kick about with the guys in the group.
Then it was back on the bikes - we ended up by the river, the ranger pointed out an elephant on the other side, it was great to see but it was quite a way off. We then started to walk along the bank - he then told us to hurry up and follow him - he did not say why but I guessed it must be that there was something worth us seeing, we were almost jogging to keep up with him - then by the river bank was a rhino - this could our only opportunity to see one so it was brilliant- watched it for a couple of minutes before he wondered back in the undergrowth. Then back on the bike for a short cycle back to the hotel.
Plans for the evening meet at 7 for dinner. We went to a great restaurant, we sat outside food was great - we all had a good time. As we left the restaurant we could see something going on so went to investigate- it was a 'rave' in the street - music playing and people dancing - some of the group joined in all good fun but then the police turned up and that ended that!!
Drinks at the bar, then bed - have got a bit of a lay in tomorrow - breakfast at 8 then river cruise ( in a canoe!!) at 9.30am
Woke up this morning another year older - 55 - got so much I want to do and see in this amazing world.
Had a bit of a lay in with breakfast at 8am with a start at 9.30 - we have to pack an overnight day pack and leave our main luggage behind.
Come 9.30 we all meet, pick up our packed lunch and take a short walk to the river to get in our dug out canoe . Well I had been looking forward to the activity but when I saw the boats and how low in the water they were I was getting a little concerned for my safety!! We had 8 in our canoe I was quite near the front - talk about having to keep your balance - I was scared to move - we did have life jackets but one wrong move and we would be in the river.
We had about an hour and a half on the river, crocodiles were everywhere!! It was nice but I had this constant concern of tipping the boat, we were sat on tiny little wooden seats and it was not long before 'numb bum' set in and we were all fidgeting. Saw some beautiful birds including several different types of kingfisher.
We then pulled up at the rivers edge and one by one had to walk the length of the boat balancing so's not to tip it over! We all clambered in to high converted into 4 wheeled drive trucks - I had a seat at the front which was great - then we were off for the rest of the day driving in what I can only describe as the film set for J.....c Park . I loved it - we were on the look out for rhino, elephants, bears and if we were exceptionally lucky tigers. After an hour we had seen various birds and a wild boar but that was about it - we had been told it was unlikely we would see much as the grasses and vegetation is so high. Come 12.30 we stopped for our picnic lunch - some old climbed up a high watch tower which did overlook a small lake but still no sighting of anything wild!
Then it was back in the trucks again - we drove for another couple of hours but nothing - we then stopped of at one of the army camps - there are small camps watch out points all,over the area to stop poaching- they have had a fantastic success rate, last year they lost just one rhino , they have a policy of zero tolerance- and will shoot to kill - it's really stamped it out, maybe other countries need to take this approach. Comfort break over we set off again - I thought OK we are not going to see anything so camera was put away. Within minutes we came to a sudden stop to the right of us was a rhino just munching away on the grasses, the driver turned of his engine and we just sat and watched - he was no more than 6/7 feet away from us it so amazing, was a magnificent creature- of course my camera came out!! I could have sat there for the rest of the day but after about 10 mins the word had obviously got out and other trucks were turning up and to be honest the rhino had started to walk further away. It was not taking any notice of us being there which did puzzle me and asked our ranger - there are big trenches dug along each side of the dirt tracks that the trucks drive on (you can't see them because of the vegetation) and the rhino 's know this and they have also now know that the trucks are not a threat so take no notice of them.
Intripid used to do the hiking tour but this got stopped a few years ago because of a few incidents- our ranger told us that a few years ago one of his friends got killed by a bear and another by a tiger - glad we are not hiking!! In the trip notes I remember reading that they recommend no additional tours are taken in our free time for safety reasons.
So we moved on, Andrew said 'sandra put your camera away - it brings us luck' so I did and then around the corner on the other side of the river was a female and baby rhino and just a bit further down a male rhino in the river just by the bank - it was great just watching them.
After so many hours driving around, which I had enjoyed, it was a fantastic ending.
Then off the trucks for a very short walk to the river bank where we had another canoe ride across to our accommodation. What a fantastic location- right on the river bank, a small lodge with a great area to sit, have a drink and watch the sun go down. Rooms are basic but nice - no air con but does have a ceiling fan and the all important mosquito net over the bed - so all good.
Peter dropped his ring while we were having pre dinner drinks so the search was on - we were 15 foot up with loads of vegetation below, we all search on the upper level then the search went on below - no joy.
We then had our dinner which was a buffet- again nice but not very spicy- then a surprise birthday cake appeared which was lovely ๐
Then the 'hunt the ring search continued' - all of a sudden a cheer and clapping - Ali had found it - such good luck - it's was like searching for a needle in a haystack. Peter was so happy and grateful.
We all sat having a chat, and a young couple from Switzerland were asking me about travelling 'at my age' - (that made everyone laugh so much) they thought it was good but were interested in how I find it and why I had not travelled in my youth, so it was great for us all to have that conversation - I was explaining that most of them are in their 30's - not married yet nor have children - but I had children very young so now it is my time and I know that I can get on with anyone and I know people will help me if I need it with my bags, if I can't climb up a steep bank someone will give me a hand oh and give me lessons on have to use my mobile properly, to take better photos and preserve my battery - thanks Andrew and Gayle - I have even learnt about 'air drop' - don't even ask!!!! We had a giggle and it was a great way to end the day.
So all in all a good birthday - it was funny someone asked me what I was doing on my birthday last year and I can't remember- this one was certainly different but one I will always remember. Had lots of birthday wishes from UK which was lovely ๐
Set the alarm early as I wanted to get up for sun rise, it would look spectacular over the river - but unfortunately when I got up it was thick fog - you could not even see the river!! But I was up so a I sat and enjoyed a couple of cups of coffee before the other joined me ready for breakfast - pancakes with bananas.
We then loaded into an open backed lorry for the final part of our wildlife adventure. We drove through some delightful little villages - all the little kids shouting and waving at us - at one stage a school bus went past us - the excitement from them when they saw us was hilarious. We then entered the park again.
We saw some lovely deer, crocodiles, some beautiful kingfishers, wild boars, monkeys and an eagle - so we did quite well.
After an hour or so we returned to the hotel and the rest of the day was free for us to do what we wanted. In the short term all I wanted was a shower and a change of clothes.
I spent a great afternoon with Andrew and Peter, we had a stroll around the shops then went to a great little restaurant for some lunch and a beer - they both have a great sense of humour so we all bounce off each other very well. Then more browsing then another beer. We bumped into others from the group who were all doing the same thing - we heard that a rhino was on the local path by the river so a few of us went to have a look to see what was going on and sure enough it had now moved from the path and was asleep on a piece of ground right by the main street.!!
Then back to hotel to get ready to go out in the evening - most of the group were going out to do their own thing but a few of us decided to go and see a local cultural performance in the town - did I laugh, some of the dancing was OK - the coordination with the banding of the sticks was impressive- but the star of the show was the peacock dance - it was hilarious I could not stop laughing - I have never seen anything quite like it - the audience was going mad. I keep watching the video I took just to prove to myself I actually sat and watched it!!! The show lasted an hour (50 minutes too long!!!) we then went to dinner. While we were having dinner we got a message from Peter and Andrew that the rhino was walking up the high street - I will have to wait until tomorrow to find out what that was all about!!
Anyway another early start tomorrow - 6.30 breakfast and 7am on the bus - off to Kathmandu for my final couple of days in Nepal.
At the moment we are sat in traffic - been on the road since 7am and now it's 3.30pm. We have not moved for 15 minutes, we are only a few miles away from our hotel in Kathmandu but the road is gridlocked. The whole place is so dusty- the locals are all wearing masks to cover their mouths and noses - there is a hell of an investment into the road system but it must be a logistical nightmare - they can't close the road like we do at home - it's one road - I would guess it is going to take years to complete.
We left National Park nice and early but during breakfast I heard all about the rhino that was walking the streets and saw the photographs- apparently it is a regular occurrence with this particular rhino - it's an old rhino and keeps away from the main park area as he knows he would get attacked and killed by the other rhinos - guess he knows no harm will come to him in the town - he just strolls about - unless you saw it you would never believe it!!
The roads for the first few miles of our predicted 6/7 hour journey were OK - then it started -can honestly say I have never been on roads like it - well in fact using the word 'road' is totally incorrect- I could equate them to farm tracks at home - we would never drive our cars on these roads. It was constant for most of the journey , in fact it gave me a headache!! The amount of traffic that was travelling over the mountain road was amazing - massive great lorries - some struggling to get around the bends and causing traffic jams. We saw a couple of results of some nasty accidents - a lorry that had overturned and a bus that had gone to close to the end of the road and got jammed in the side gutter.
We stopped for some lunch on the mountain side - like out motorway services!!! Well sort off the view while eating was a couple of smashed up coaches!!
Then back in the bus - to sit in traffic - yay we are on the move again!!!!
We finally got to the hotel at around 4.30 - what a pleasant surprise after days of little and cold showers I found myself in a room with the most amazing shower and my delight at finding a kettle and a hairdryer are I am afraid to say indescribable!! My first Nescafé for over five days - was delightful, followed by a hot shower - I could have quite happily have stayed in my room for the next 24 hours!!
Went down to reception to meet every one for dinner and was surprised to be greeted by Marcus and Lenny the two guys from my first group who were planning to climb to base camp - it was so good to see them again - unfortunately they had had to abandon their climb due to injury - they joined our group for dinner and it was great to catch up with all their news and exchange stories of our travels. They are such a lovely couple of lads, hopefully I will catch up with them again before I leave for Dubai.
Anyway I left them to get back to the hotel, they were going for a night on the town - I put my sensible head on although it was very tempting to join them.
Most of the group are going on the Everest flight tomorrow - I am just too scared to go it took all my courage to go in the hot air balloon so am giving it a miss.
Have a lay in tomorrow - not meeting until 10 but will get up early and have a bit of a wonder - it appears quite safe here.
Had a great nights sleep, woke up early - and within a few minutes there was a power-cut - luckily I had my 'emergency bag' near by (I'll tell you more about that another time!!) but it does have a torch in it!! Well half hour passed and I thought maybe it's just me so called reception - 'sorry madam it's major this time we are waiting for the generators to arrive' - half hour later we were up and running again.
As the others were off risking life and limb flying around Everest I decided to go down for breakfast - it was great got talking to a couple of guys who had just come back from 3 weeks trekking to base camp so they were telling me all about that.
Thought I would go for a stroll around the town as we were not meeting as a group until 10am. It feels so much safer here and I guess I am more confident- happy to tell the sellers 'no thanks' and not feel guilty!! I made sure I made a point of land marks as every street looks the same and I did not want to get lost!! Any way found a lovely little shop that should painting on canvas- brought a lovely painting and even negotiated the price!! Will get it framed once I get home. I must admit there is so much 'tat' about - think I'll be buying duty free for family on the way home!
Went back to the hotel and saw the rest of the group getting out of the minibus - they were raving about the trip (am very envious) we all went for a coffee and I saw the photos and heard all about it - Ali who is also scared of flying had taken notes to tell me about it in full detail - maybe it would not be as bad as I have built it up to be in my mind.
At 10 we all got on the bus - we had a fantastic guide with us - he told us so much local information about Nepal - its history and day to day life.
First stop was - Swayambhunatha stupa - the Monkey Temple to you and me!! And yes there were monkeys everywhere- the temple is an important Buddhist shrine. It was great just walking about and 'people watching' - again we were warned about the monkeys - any sign of food and they jump on you to steel it!!
We then went to the Pashupatinath Temple which is on the river Bagmati - this is. Hindu temple - lots going on, pilgrims were bathing, holy men wanting money to have a picture taken (yes I did!!!) We saw funeral pyres burning on the ghats - this river eventually flows into the river Ganges.
Then back on the bus to go to Bodhnath Stupa - yes it was lovely but I am well and truly Stupa and Templed out!!!
After lunch we returned to our hotel (it's 4.30) we have our final dinner this evening before we all depart company.
Today I proved I really can go Beyond My Comfort Zone
We had a nice last meal last night. Andrew was nominated to do a little speech to thank AJay for looking after us for the last few weeks. He did really well and made everyone laugh. It was then back to the hotel - goodbyes to some of the group who are leaving early in the morning, then a few drinks and off to bed. I have most of tomorrow here- being picked up at 4pm with a flight at 7.30 to Dubai.
Set my alarm for 5am - why you may be thinking????? Well I kept thinking about the great experience the others had with their flight to see Everest and thought you know what - I have done so much that is way out of my comfort zone - just be brave and go for it so I did!!!!
I was doing this on my own, a taxi picked me at 5.30 to take me to the airport, I kept thinking 'why, why why am I doing this' then I started thing about everything else I could have spent the money on. Although the driver could not speak any english he showed me exactly where I had to go and showed me where he would be waiting for me when I got back (I thought - if I get back!!!) there were loads of people - so many going hiking to base camp.
Eventually got through security and got on a bus to get to the plane. I was with a crowd of Americans who were really nice. We were quite delayed I think it was because it was quite foggy.
The bus took us to the plane- a propeller type - I had been forewarned. While we sat on the bus I could see the pilot going around the plane looking at 'stuff' he spun the propellers round - somehow this filled me with a bit more confidence- no idea why!!
Then we were told we could get on the plane - we had allocated seats - 9D - everyone gets a window seat - there was about 35 of us.
We were given a sweet each (not sure why?) and we started getting ready for take-off - I did my usual counting thing in my head ( don't ask but it helps me stay calm) - the noise of the propellers was very strange but thanks to Ali I was prepared for this.
Anyway by the time I had counted to about 300 we were up in the air and I could I
open my eyes!! The air stewardess was asking people if they wanted to go in the cockpit - OK - this seems wrong on every level but thought Let's just do this - I was surprised on how small it was - he pointed out Everest to me, I took a quick photo and got back to the safety of my seat as soon as possible. From the side of the plane where I was sat you could not see any of the mountains but the air hostess told me when the flight turns around I would be able to see everything.
Then the turn - it was just a few seconds so over very quickly - OMG what a sight, the mountains looked magnificent- then got another opportunity to go in the cockpit!! Got lots of pictures, got the t-shirt, got a certificate and one of the Americans took my picture to prove I had done it!!!
The flight was about an hour and the time just flew by - I throughly enjoyed the experience and so pleased I stepped out of my comfort zone once again for an amazing experience.
Final Day in Kathmandu
After the high of my flight first thing this morning, the rest of the day was spent coming back down again.
Met with a few of the others that were still around for some breakfast, went to a great little place and have a very pleasant hour reminiscing about the trip and talking about our various ongoing travel plans. I am the only one going to Dubai.
Then it was back to the hotel, get packed and checked out. Then went for a stroll around town - again kept in a straight line (as best as possible) was trying to make my way to ............... - came to a closed road but they were letting pedestrians through - the road was a bed of tar - I carried on walking until the path ran out then gave up. Picked up some lovely scarves, then went back to the hotel.
Spent the next couple of hours having a bite to eat and a beer.
Transport all arranged for 4pm. Five past, then 10 past - nothing - went to reception and they said wait until quarter past - nothing appeared - was just starting to get a bit concerned - reception then said nothing was booked for me. Luckily AJay was staying at the hotel and reception found him and he got it sorted - the hotel mini bus took me - there was such a queue at checkin it did not make any difference so slight panic over.
Got through immigration with no problems. What an awful airport - guess we are spoilt with Gatwick and Heathrow - one little shop, got a coffee - was looking forward to a nice glass of wine, not has a glass of wine for 3 weeks!!
There's rows of metal chairs to sit at while you wait to board. It's now 18.20 and my flight as been announced - can someone please explain to me as to why people queue up to get on a plane - there have to be at least 60 people stood in a queue - just waiting.............
Am due to get to Dubai around 22.20 - just under a five hour flight, when I get there I have to look out for someone in an orange t-shirt with a sign with my name on it!! Then it's a 25 mins drive to my hotel for the next few days.
Arrive in Dubai in good time, four and half hours and as luck would have it I got a seat by the window and emergency exit so lots of leg room - some cheeky monkey had taken my seat but he soon got turfed out by the air steward!! He was not happy.......
I missed out on my glass of wine at Kathmandu so treated myself to a prosecco! I am not tired even though I got up at 5am. So took the opportunity to write a short piece on My Packing Advise - which I will post later.
The flight was pretty uneventful, it was amazing as we were coming into Dubai - the lights from the ground just showed what a huge area this has become. Once we disembarked I had to go through immigration - they seemed surprised I was travelling alone!! Then it was reclaim luggage and meet my transfer in the orange t-shirt.
This is where I confess!!! I could have sworn it said go to belt 3 - so off I went and the luggage was just staring to come round - I must admit I thought to myself - I can't remember all these people in burqa's but thought maybe they had put them on as we landed (!) I waited and waited and no sign of my bag - eventually everyone had picked up their luggage- I went to speak to someone explaining my bag had not come through - yes you've guessed my bag was slowly going around belt number 2 - all alone!! I felt so stupid ( so used to having a tour leader thinking for me!!!) then through customs to a couple of guys waiting for yes - no orange t-shirt but my name - they asked if everything was OK and why had it taken my so long to get through - I did tell a little white lie 'they lost my bag' !!!
The tour guide gave me an envelope- talked very fast and sent me on my way with the driver - not a clue what was happening or where I was going. The driver was a bit frosty - mind you I think I would be to impressed being kept waiting for so long. The journey to 'Old Town' took about 20 minutes- the building are so high and the roads just so smooth!!!
Got to my hotel and on check in had to make some sort of tax payment - luckily there was a cash point in the hotel. Finally got to my room - very nice. Started to read the info in the envelope and it appears my tour of the city and my desert adventure is tomorrow....... my trip notes from Intrepid say I have a free day tomorrow and my excursions are Sunday - not that's it's a problem - but good job I looked!! Am being picked up at 8.30!
I am all over the place with the time differences!!
So Different and I nearly die!!
Kept waking up, so did not have a great nights sleep - feeling exhausted!!
Did not bother with breakfast. Went to reception area to be picked up for my morning excursion - it's a really busy hotel, all looks lovely. By 9am I was still waiting, went to reception and they said - ' just wait, they will come for you' - true to his word a guy turn up in traditional dress - and just beckoned me to follow him - not a clue if I should be going with him - no introductions !! Anyway got on a small bus, there was another couple of people onboard- still no introductions - and we were on the road - he did say - we will be picked up some more people. Which we did - including a couple of women who turned out to be sisters from Australia - I tagged along with them, they were so friendly - they have been to Dubai many times so it was good to chat to them.
Then the guide told us what we would be doing. First stop the Al Fahidi Fort and the Dubai Museum- it was packed solid!! Looked very well put together, and interesting but I just could not get to see much and we only had half hour there - all a bit rushed.
Then back on the bus to catch a ferry across Dubai Creek in a traditional water taxi to visit the spice and gold markets. The water taxi was great but was only for a few minutes! The smells in the spice souq was delightful but again all rushed, then walked to the gold market - just amazing, store after store - we had 20 minutes to look round!!! Then back on the bus to stop at an amazing Mosque - just for a photo (weird !!) then back on the bus to go to a art gallery- (a sales pitch) sad really - the items were absolutely beautiful by you are talking thousands of pounds!! We spent over 20 minutes there (?) would have much preferred to spend more time in the markets. Then it was drop off time - took ages........ and I am starving, the 2 sisters told me all about the desert safari - they said how some of the drivers are absolutely crazy so you need to go with one of the reputable companies - started to feel a bit uneasy about it but thought I know Intrepid are very serious with regards to the health and safety of its customers so I will be fine.
When I finally go to the hotel I spoke to my guide about organising a hot air ballon ride for the following morning - could be done but the price is so much more than Intrepid advertise and I really could not justify the cost. After chatting to him about what I could do we have arranged for a new town tour tomorrow- meeting him at three and he will take me to all the sights!!
Had 30 minutes before I am off to my desert safari, quick coffee and people watching!!
Then a guy turns up - knows my name and room number (?) so off I go again - he speaks great english, there is an Indian guy call Jay in the four wheel drive so off we go - Ali the driver was very chatty, nice guy - had to pick up another 4 people - all 18 year olds from Germany. Then on our way to the desert, about a 45 minutes drive.
On the way he asks what sort of experience do we want, mild, middle or extreme!! Well you can imagine the 'kids' wanted extreme- me I really wanted mild but said middle!!
Then he started saying we were lucky that we were on a 'private tour' - OMG what am I doing, my palms are clammy and I am scared and I mean scared - I hate roller coasters, don't drive fast and basically absolutely hate and am scared of anything that is not safe!!
We arrived at the desert, he said we have 5 minutes while he lets some air pressure out of his tyres. Then we climb back in - tells me where to hold on - one hand on the roll bar and the other on a strap by the window - I really want to cry, this is going to be my worst nightmare and IT WAS - I was sweating buckets!! He was obviously very skilled but god did he scare me - the 'kids' were loving it. The first 15 minutes were OK I could at a stretch say fun - we stopped for a few photos but then he steeped it up a gear - on more than one occasion I really thought we were going to tip over. He told me he had actually tipped over a couple of times - this made me feel even worse.
After another 15 minutes he said he was going to stop so we could see the sunset - thank goodness- I am now feeling so sick!! I did tell him and he said we only have another 10 minute to go - we watch the sun go down - it was lovely but I felt so ill - I'm laughing now but I could see the road ahead and asked him if I could walk and meet them there - hehehehe how stupid!! Of course he said no and reassured me he would take it a bit easier and even suggested I sit in the front (no chance)
Well of course he did not take it any easier - he had warned us at the beginning of this nightmare that if anyone 'puked they would have to pay 500 AED - I was seriously thinking - this is going to cost me!
I was so relieved to get to the road, there were loads of vehicles that had been doing the same thing so it was like a long convoy - we were now off to a Bedouin Campsite.
I am feeling very unwell, when we got there I asked him about the journey back and he told me 'a few minutes over the sand then on the main road back to your hotel' great I could enjoy the campsite and finally have something to eat.
It was good fun at the campsite - a real tourist event!! It took a good half hour for my stomach to settle before I could enjoy the great food and entertainment- belly dancers, I got a Henna design done on my leg (back at work soon so would not look very professional on my hand!) - all in all a good couple of hours.
Time to return to the hotel - if he had been honest I would not have eaten anything!! All the other vehicles went straight to the road - oh no not us, he was spinning the car and I think basically showing off!! I was not the only one starting to feel ill, we had all eaten loads of food!! After a good ten minutes we got on the main roads - we had to stop so he could inflate his tyres again. Then back on the road. He asked if someone wanted to put some music on - one of the German lads loaded up his phone - OMG it was full blast and quite frankly bloody awful!! You can imagine I feel ill, by now my throat is now getting sore and I want my bed. I just thought this will be over in 45 mins - I have never felt go pleased to get to my room and climb into bed.
The desert safari I am sure with a responsible company/driver would be great fun but I am afraid my experience was awful. I would like to say this part of my travels is operated by intripid' local operator - Desert Adventures - so far not impressed.
Tomorrow's another day!!!
No Alarm - but no lie-in
Having real trouble sleeping, my throat is getting worse and my ears hurt - it turns out servers of the others in the group are also unwell!!
When I finally dragged myself out of bed I dosed myself up - I just have today then it home - I am so ready to go home.
I thought I would spend the morning up by the roof pool - no chance every bed had a 'towel' reserving it!!! - tried getting the free shuttle bus to the beach - no chance you have to book a day in advance!! So got a taxi - the driver made me laugh - he wanted me to bring him to England as my driver!!! He dropped me off at a nice beach - it was lovely- normally I am happy to lay on the beach but not feeling great so wanted to relax for a few hours on a sun bed under an umbrella - cost me over 20 quid !! But it was nice to have a bit of a relax and a swim ( the sea was glorious)
Come 2pm got a taxi back ready to meet my guide. When I got back to my room got a call from my guide to say was it OK to bring his wife along - 'OKAY' !!!
Anyway met them both in reception, Sam & Daria - both turned out to be lovely ( mind you I am paying for their time!!) he told me the plan - it would be about 5 hours and he would show me as much as possible. So off to his car - (nice and air conditioned)
First off to the monorail to Atlantis - it was great he knew exactly where to stand so I got the prime front seat (!) and it was great to get a birds eye view - he was pointing out all the landmarks and even David Beckham's villa !!! We had a stroll by the gulf sea and viewed the hotel from afar - the top suite apparently costs £24 k per night ( that does include breakfast!!!)
Then we went to the marina to get an hours boat ride and see the sun set - again he sorted it all out and I had a running commentary of every building, it was fascinating and the wealth is unbelievable. Got talking to an english couple who where off to Australia - they thought my guide was great and have booked him for their return leg!!
We went to the world biggest shopping mall - The Dubai Mall, I wanted to see the Aquarium and the Dubai water Fountains- OMG - unbelievable. I had been told about the aquarium but it is jaw dropping and until you actually see it you can't believe this is actually in the middle of a shopping mall. I could not believe the number of different species, including sharks and rays - would have loved to have spent more time there. There are apparently over 1500 stores over 4 floors - the guide did tell me it was a very expensive place to shop - good job I did not have more time because I think I could have done some serious damage to my credit card there!
Then I went to the water fountain- again he knew exactly where I should stand to get the best view - it only lasts about 5 minutes but it was amazing - loved it!!
More driving about then he told me my hotel was opposite another shopping mall that had an indoor ski slope- I asked him to drop me off there ( he did and showed me what exit I needed to get back to my hotel). Again this was huge - and yes there is a ski slope - you can ski, snowboard, toboggan and meet penguins - did not have time to go in but looked good fun.
Then back to my hotel - am absolutely exhausted and not had anything to eat - had a bit of trouble finding my way back but went in a local store and they pointed me in the right direction. Ordered room service (did not fancy going down for dinner on my own!) which was not good - it looked and tasted like airline food!!
Home tomorrow being picked up at 8.45 for a mid day flight.
Up early for my final challenge- how to get my all my stuff back in my bag!! Even with throwing a few things away it was a real struggle.
Then picked up and taken to the airport, what a great airport, but then I guess you would not expect anything less. I did go to duty free - great, some real bargains so went to check out with 3 different bottles for gifts - 'are you sure you want all this madam?' - limit is 1 litre per person so it had to go back - so only one present sorted!!!
Had a wander around then went for a bite to eat before getting on board- had upgraded so had plenty of let room for my 7.5 hour flight - I did say yesterday that my room service meal was just like airline food - I must say the food onboard was really nice. Plenty of wine - basically really looked after. Great flight.
It did give me time to reflect on my time in Dubai. Everyone seemed to think that the Dubai stretch of my travels would be my favourite but you may be surprised to hear it wasn't. Don't get me wrong it's an amazing place, the architecture and innovation is beyond anything you can image but quite frankly its obscene, the wealth and the apparent obsession to be bigger and better than anywhere in the world is mind blowing. Maybe it's because I have travelled from countries that are so full of history and traditions that I find Dubai completely 'soul-less'. The people are very friendly and you do feel safe.
Saying all this, I would go back if and when I wanted a holiday laying in the sun, enjoying amazing 'theme' activities - I mean who wouldn't want to go to the top of the tallest building, ski in a shopping mall, have afternoon tea at the famous Burt Alm Arab hotel or spend the day at Aquaventure Waterpark. One-day I will return to do these things but for now I am pleased to leave.
As usual my transport home was waiting for me - the final part of my journey went quickly - and seeing the glowing blue 'Welcome To Bournemouth' sign filled me with joy - I have had the most amazing time but delighted to be home.
Before I started on this adventure I did read quite a few different articles/ blogs to try and make sure I was as prepared as possible.
One of my major purchases was my rucksack come wheeled bag - it came with a detachable day pack. Worth every penny, I only had to convert it to a rucksack once and that was for my overnight train journey and to be honest I only did that because it's had been a nightmare trying to drag my bag through a packed station earlier on (I was running over everyone's feet!!) it was heavy and I would not have wanted to carry it too far, but having that option when needed is great. Was surprised how much I could pack into quite a small space. During my travels I became quite good at cramming everything in ( the almost daily challenge was sitting on the bag to get the zips done up)
Someone had also recommended these mesh packing cubes - brilliant idea - I had three and used them for my clothes, one for tops, one for bottoms and the other for odds and sods - it was great I knew exactly where everything was with regards to my clothes. I have always been the type of person who folds everything but again was recommend to roll - I am converted!! Think I got the clothing situation a bit wrong - yes you do need to cover up and be respectful especially when you are visiting religious locations but I think I took it a bit too far and when I return I would definitely not worry quite as much as I did before this trip. I took a couple of disposable ponchos- did not use them but again maybe I was lucky.
I did buy a peg-less washing line which was brilliant and some travel wash which was fine for the odd bit of washing but I did use the hotel laundry service whenever possible which was good and very inexpensive. I also brought a great fold up laundry bag - unfortunately I handed it in at one of the hotels, they returned my laundry beautifully washed and ironed and it was not until the next morning that I realised they still had my bag but we were leaving at 5 am so I had no chance of getting it back - will definitely get a replacement.
One of my major concerns was bed bugs!! I had read that they would be everywhere- major advise was to put my bag in the bath/shower to stop any getting into my belongings. Brought a bed bug mattress cover that goes under your sheet and these sticky pads you can put under the bed legs to stop the bugs climbing up. Never saw any signs of bugs and did not use the mattress cover or the pads ( in fact most of the beds did not have legs!!) so both items a waste of time, space and money - maybe in hostels there could be a problem or guesthouses but not sure.
I did buy a silk sleeping sheet ( a bit like a sleeping bag liner) and if I thought the bedding looked a bit less than desirable I would sleep in that - I brought a double so I did not feel trapped. Used it camping as well. This was a good buy and would definitely take with me again.
Travel towel, used it once but for the small amount of space it takes up would still take again.
A great buy was a battery operated mosquito repellent - it was really effective. Was concerned that I had forgotten additional batteries but they lasted just fine.
Took a couple of spray mosquito repellent - used one and a bit - you do find that when your out and about someone will ask if you have any so there was a bit of sharing going on. I did get quite a few nasty mosquito bites and I do get a bad reaction to them, did not take enough antihistamine tables with me so found I was rationing them which was not really helpful - lesson learnt!!
I took 50 individual coffee sachets with me - used them all - to be fair my travel mug it quite big and it needs at least 2 sachets if not 3. Thinking about it I should have put a couple of sachets in my essentials bag that I always put in my day pack (more about that later) I took a spoon and this was needs a couple of times. The cuppa soup was not needed!! I loved the food and will definitely need to go back to boot camp as soon as I get back home!!
Another major concern to me was becoming unwell especially with Delhi Belly - so made sure I had all the necessary medication to deal with this if it occurred. Maybe I was was lucky but I only had to take a couple of tablets and I was fine. Some people in the group did have a couple of days of being very unwell. I was a bit obsessed with the hand gel and antiseptic wipes!! To be fair most of the toilets were western - but then I would avoid the squat ones as much as possible. The ones I did use were pretty rank - packets of tissues are a must!! Did buy a 'she wee' never used it but would still recommend as you never know!!
I kept toiletries to a minimum - shower gel, sponge, shampoo, conditioner, a mini razor, compressed deodorant (2), and a small body lotion. Travel toothbrush and a small toothpaste (just about lasted the trip) Makeup - just the basics and then face cream and I could not go without my Moroccan oil for my hair! Sealable food bags are great just in case something leaks or get broken!
I took a pair of trainers and one pair of flip flops and that was it with regards to footwear - I wore my trainers once - hot air ballooning - good advise as you don't know where you are going to land! I would have worn them a couple of other times if I had been aware of what we were doing beforehand (Climbing over rocks to catch a fantastic sun set)and to be honest that is all you need. I would definitely get a good pair of flip flops as they take quite a battering.
I did have a small first aid kit, nothing major in it, headache tablets, antihistamine tablets (should have taken more) a few sachets of gaviston, rehydration powders, bite relief cream and the usual plasters and a bandage!
I had a few power adapters - one of which was given to me because the ones I brought at the airport in fact not useable in India but I could use them in Nepal.
I brought a money belt - great idea but only wore it for one day - it was uncomfortable and so hot!! I sort of used it as a bag to put my purse, glasses and phone in !! So it did get used but not in the way it was intended.
The lock to secure my bag was used, on the overnight train and a few time in my room if I felt it was needed. Also very useful in Dubai when I went to the beach - I could secure my belongings while I went for a swim. Padlocks are a must for your bags - in some of the hotel rooms the wardrobe had a bolt on it so you could put everything in the wardrobe and use your own lock to keep you belongings secure which was a great idea.
My daily essential kit consisted of - hand gel, packet of tissues, pack of cards, earphones, mosquito bite relief cream, mosquito spray, antihistamine tablets, a torch, cork screw/bottle opener (this proved to be helpful!!) pen, tooth brush & paste, luggage lock, headache tablets, and medication in case I got an upset stomach and always the business card from the hotel we were staying- just in case I got lost!!
I took a camera but to be honest the camera on mobiles is just as good these days - I did use it a couple of times and did take it with me on my day pack just in case my phone 'died' on me!! Plus once you get to know your fellow travellers you all share photos anyway.
I did miss a hairdryer- I think I will look into investing in one next time I travel! Also many of the group had mobile power packs for their phones - did not even know such a thing existed so will definitely get one of those, several times I ran out of battery and someone's power pack saved the day for me. The other thing I would take would be a small bag - I found I had to take my day pack out with me in the evenings which was not necessary.
Another thing that I found so helpful (thanks Di) was a little visual list that fits in your purse of the currency exchange - e.g. 50 Indian rupees was worth 0.63 and 1000 rupees is worth £12.50 etc etc - I know it's not 100% accurate but it gives you a good guide - I know there's an app on your phone but this is quicker to use - will definitely do this myself in the future (well I will get someone to do it for me!!)
I definitely packed lighter for this trip than I did for China five years ago but would really like to try and make it even lighter next time, you really can make do with the bare minimum but putting that into practice takes time and experience!!